Sunday, May 7, 2017
Have you ever worked in a envoirment with Jealous Co-workers!? They can't wait to slander you!! Smear you.... and say how much they love you!! Lol.... I got your number.... well people the Bible says??? Show them LOVE!! Kill them with Kindness!!!! Pray for them!!! I pray and speak Blessings on them!!! Shwaooooooooo!!
Friday, February 3, 2017
So you are seeking healing from a past , BAD RELATIONSHIP..... abusive....so you come to Church to get healing , get your confidence back..Ect...
Well do not get into another relationship during the healing process ...DONT LIE TO YOURSELF and think cause your lonely that being in another realationship is going to make your hurt go away?? STOP THE CYCLE from repeating it self.
If you keep finding your self in this Vicious cycle of dating bad choices THEN STOP DATING!!! Dating another person doesn't heal the past!!!
In Ministrsy this is one of my Biggest problems with people who are seeking to walk the right patch with GOD, but neglect ALL WISDOM once they become lonely!!! learn to walk with GOD even during your loneliest times, be. Mature and walk upright with the LORD. Let GOD do his thing in your life and let the healing , process complete it self.
Fear? We are not suppose to look back....only FWD to the future yet i get some fear everyone now and then , But i have to always keep trusting in GOD and HIS promises , you can loose site of that.... FEAR IS A LIE OF THE DEVIL, Dont miss your Blessing....or because of fear you can loose it..
Monday, January 30, 2017
POLITICS , Church Politics
Stay out of politics 👌🏾 ok ?? Should i ? If I'm in a influential Leadership position? I have an opinion? NO ITS NOT WRONG TO VOICE MY OPINION
HONESTLY : i feel like as Christians we are being more persecuted than ever before..... SO IM AGAINST ABORTION? thats my opinion......why am i demonized for it? i need a platform to express my OPINON BE MY SELF with out hiding what i post? i hate that....i have to be careful what i post on FB , i have to be careful what i post on Twitter!!!! I want to post what i feel....and yes i do understand you have to be careful not to vent cause it make you look bad, being negative all the time...BUT I'm talking about my raw opinion on issues.....so i have choosing this PLATFORM , blogger to journal my thoughts and opinions , not my. EMOTIONS but true raw opinions on situations.....but i have a Feeling even this will feel the pressure of censoring my true feelings eventually from the public.
Sunday, January 29, 2017
Everyone says or wants to think they are loyal? But loyalty goes both ways...don't abuse your Loyal Peeps at work or in the ministry.....just like LOVE you need to cultivate Loyalty. BONDING by spending quality time helps develop natural loyalty. If Leadership wants loyalty or demands loyalty then the leadership must be loyal to its people. The people are watching. BUYING LOYALTY DOES NOT LAST....if you think by providing Money and goods is enough , it's not.. ;IT DOES HELP......
Serving ONE ANOTHER in different ways wether your the Leader or not.
Being in ministry now i realized the more you serve as a leader you continuously need to show love and respect to your volunteers , Honor them , appreciate them Genuinely, people feel that love.....LOVE CONQUERS ALL .... if you neglect people and don't give honor where honor is due, you will loose the loyalty as a leader that you think you have or had at one time from your volunteers.......... DONT ASSUME people are loyal just because they say they are. Actions will speak louder then their words. I know a person who will throw me under the Bus every time they can and at the same time tell me I'm family, LOL ,
Honestly in ministry , working on staff , knowing other church staffs , working with staffs from different Churches , i have recognized Loyalty is not taught , or even cultivated amongst peers? I would think ....now where i work it is taught , cause we are like family...but our church staff is rare, and I'm very fortunate to be part of it for over 15 years....
I think a natural Characteristic that comes from a strong family is LOYALTY cause of LOVE. What do you think? I would like to know your thought on it. COMMENT if you don't mind